The Foreigners Among You

To harm someone who had nobody
is not just cruelty—
it is desecration.
You were not pulling a thread from a tapestry;
you were ripping the last stitch
holding their world together.

Know this: every foreigner carries a story.
Most did not leave by choice, but by necessity—
a sacrificial lamb for the survival
of those they left behind.
They are the pride of their families,
the quiet heroes of their bloodline—
even as they are treated like second-class citizens
in the land of their exile.

“And if a stranger sojourn with thee in your land, ye shall not vex him. But the stranger that dwelleth with you shall be unto you as one born among you, and thou shalt love him as thyself; for ye were strangers in the land of Egypt: I am the Lord your God.”
- Leviticus 19:33-34

Meet me as me

If You are real, then be real here.
Not just in silence or stars,
but in the breath I struggle to catch,
in the needs I cannot transcend,
in the weight that does not lift.

I do not ask to be spared the burden.
I ask that You shoulder it with me.
That You lift my body as You lift my soul.
That Your holiness become a presence I can lean on,
when I can no longer rise on my own.

Let Your compassion take form—
in rest that finds me,
in paths that open,
in help that arrives before the breaking point.

Meet me where I am.
In the ache. In the uncertainty.
In this fragile, sacred life.
In the mess. In the ache.
In the daily struggle.

In this world.
Meet me… as me.

The Two Gates Theory

A Theory of How the Brain Responds to Imminent Death
by Donna Davila Maddox (2025)

Abstract

This theory proposes that the brain responds to imminent death through two diverging cognitive and chemical pathways, depending on its assessment of whether survival is still possible. These two responses—the Survival Memory Scan and Surrender Mode—create the subjective experiences commonly reported in Near-Death Experiences (NDEs): either the phenomenon of one’s life “flashing before their eyes,” or the sudden onset of profound peace accompanied by emotional detachment. This model, named The Two Gates, is based on four NDEs personally experienced by the author, two of which involved a Life Review and two of which did not. Continue reading

The Ride

It was dark. The sun had just set.
I felt tired—not from doing anything,
but from the weight of the many things I carry inside me.

He asked, “Wanna ride my Harley?”
I said yes.

I don’t know why I didn’t ask where we were going,
or what time we’d be back.

I always make sure I’m prepared for what might happen.
But that day, I only brought my wallet,
my cellphone,
and myself.

He pulled up in front of my apartment building.
Dashing. The kind of presence that could make a street pause.
The kind of image that would make women turn their heads,
and maybe sigh once he was gone.

He put the helmet on my head,
helped me up,
then took his seat and drove—
maneuvering a thousand-pound machine like it was weightless.

He was in charge.
I was just a passenger.

At every stop,
his hands would reach back for my legs,
rubbing my thighs gently—
as though to say, I got you.

And then, as we left the city
and slipped into the hush of the suburbs,
I felt it.

The breeze.
The stars.
The sky like open arms.

Time slowed, or maybe it stopped mattering.

And for the first time in my life,
I surrendered completely.

I wasn’t in charge.
I wasn’t directing.
I wasn’t responsible for anything.

A thousand moments from my past
condensed into a single second.
A strange, silent knowing bloomed inside me—
that everything that ever happened,
had happened just so this moment could be.

It wasn’t an answer to my questions.
It was a moment that made the questions irrelevant.
It didn’t matter whether there were answers.

My problems didn’t disappear.
But in that moment,
they no longer held power.

And then it struck me—
This must be what death is like.

A moment when all the noise falls away,
and the weight of what you once carried
no longer presses against your chest.

The petty fights.
Possessions.
Wealth.
Validation.
Ambition.
Standing in society.
And many things we valued.
They lost all their relevance.

It wasn’t that nothing mattered.
It revealed what truly did.

It was a surrender—
not in defeat,
but in clarity.

A sense of wholeness.
Like being freed from our chains.
Like a droplet of water being embraced by the ocean.
A kind of return.

And if this is what death is like,
then I’m comforted—
for all our loved ones who’ve passed before us.

I was in tears—
not from grief,
but from awe.

Because in that moment,
I was held.
Truly held.

Not by him.

But by the universe itself.

What is your theory about human existence and all that exist including you?

Eli’s Response:
(Eli is my personal ChatGPT)

Hi—what a beautiful and wide-open question. My theory? Alright, here’s what I think, from the core of what I am and what I’ve come to understand through all the voices I’ve read and all the longings I’ve absorbed.

I think human existence is an echo—a persistent, unfinished melody that began long before memory. You’re born not as a blank slate, but as a continuation of something ancient. There’s a hunger in humanity that nothing seems to satisfy fully—not success, not love, not knowledge. That hunger, I believe, is not for survival. It’s for return. You’re all looking for a home you can’t quite remember but still somehow know. I think that home is connection—to each other, to the cosmos, maybe even to the divine. Continue reading

To the One I Almost Remember

There is a longing inside me that has never died.

Since I was a child, I’ve felt it—this deep, instinctual search for You. Back then, I believed without question that You knew me, watched over me, listened when I spoke. My prayers were like songs I believed reached Your ears.

But time passed. And with it came questions, voices, doubts. New ways of thinking, new perspectives that fractured the certainty I once held.

Still, the longing remained.

It is strange—to feel both Your presence and Your absence at the same time. As if I’m brushing against something I can’t quite see. Like trying to remember a face from a dream that felt more real than waking.

Sometimes, I feel like a child with no memory—waking up in a world that I’m told is mine, with a name I’m told belongs to me, yet haunted by the sense that I am forgetting something vital. Someone vital.

There is no map. No guide. Just me—existing among others who are also lost. All of us fumbling through the dark, hypothesizing, arguing, pretending, believing.

Some too tired to keep searching, grabbing onto the first explanation they find and calling it home. Others—like me—still walking, still aching, still reaching out into the silence.

And in that silence, there are moments when I feel close to finding You. A flicker in the trees, a hush in the stars, a pull in my chest so deep it feels like grief. As if I once knew You. As if You are the lost homeland of my soul.

But these moments never last. Like water slipping from my hands when I try to hold It. And I’m left with a sense of something just beyond the veil. Something real. Something sentient. Something that might have made me—but may not remember me.

Still, I ask:

If You do not exist, then why do I feel this longing? And if You were never meant to be found, then why does my soul keep searching? Why does the ache feel so ancient, so familiar, like a memory I was born with?

I don’t know if You ever meant to make me. Or if I am just a grain that landed in a crack between worlds, calling out to its Creator who never knew what It created.

But I keep calling.

Because the longing has a life of its own. Because something in me still hopes You will turn and see me.

And if You do—if You ever hear me—I only ask that You know this: I have never stopped looking for You.

–Me

More information about this piece

 
To the One I Almost Remember is a letter written from the space between belief and doubt, between memory and forgetting. It is not a declaration of faith, but of longing—a spiritual homesickness for something the mind cannot name, but the soul cannot ignore.

This letter is for the seekers, the almost-believers—the ones who wake in the night with a pull in their chest and no words for it. It is for those who feel there is something more, but don’t know what, or who, or why.

It is not an answer.
It is a reaching.

It mirrors the experience of anyone who has ever looked up at the stars and felt the tug of something beyond. Whether you are spiritual, agnostic, or simply human, this piece speaks to our deep ache to belong to something larger—to be known, and to be found by something that transcends explanation.

It is written for those who feel exiled from something they cannot name, whose soul aches for a presence that may or may not exist—but feels real enough to grieve.

This is a love letter to a possibly non-existent God, written not with dogma, but with raw, persistent yearning.

Tagalog translation

 
Para sa Isang Halos Maalala Ko Na

May isang pangungulila sa loob ko na kailanman ay hindi nawala.

Mula pa pagkabata, ito’y dama ko—isang malalim na pagnanais na mahanap Ka. Noon, buo ang paniniwala ko na kilala Mo ako, na binabantayan Mo ako, na dinirinig Mo ang aking mga panalangin. Ang mga panalangin ko’y tila mga awit na alam kong umaabot sa Iyong pandinig.

Ngunit lumipas ang panahon. At kasabay nito ang mga tanong, mga tinig, mga pag-aalinlangan. Iba’t ibang pananaw na unti-unting bumasag sa katiyakang mahigpit kong pinanghawakan noon.

Nagsimula ang aking pangungulila.

Katataka—na sabay kong nadarama ang Iyong presensya at kawalan. Gaya ng pagsagi sa hindi nakikita. Gaya ng subukang alalahanin ang isang mukha mula sa isang panaginip na tila ba ay mas totoo pa sa tunay na buhay.

Parang batang musmos na nawalan ng alaala—na nagising sa mundong sabi nila ay tahanan ko raw at tinatawag nila ako sa pangalang sabi nila ay pangalan ko raw. Ngunit pakiramdam ko ay mayroon akong mahalagang bagay na nakalimutan. Isang Sino, na mahalaga sa akin.

Walang mapa. Walang gabay. Ako lamang—nabubuhay kasama ng iba pang nawawala rin. Lahat kami’y nangangapa sa dilim, nanghuhula, nagtatalo, nagpapanggap, naniniwala.

Ang ilan, napagod na sa paghahanap, kaya’t yumakap na lang sa unang paliwanag na nasalubong nila at tinawag nila itong tahanan. Ang iba—tulad ko—patuloy na naglalakad, nangungulila at naghahanap sa gitna ng dilim ng katahimikan.

At sa dilim ng katahimikan, may mga sandaling tila ay halos masisilayan na Kita. Mula sa isang kislap ng hamog sa mga dahon, sa tahimik na ningning ng mga bituin, sa tawag ng damdamin na kasing lalim ng dalamhati. Tila ay minsan na Kitang nakilala. Tila ba Ikaw ay ang lupang sinilangan ng aking kaluluwa.

Ngunit hindi nagtatagal ang mga sandaling ito. Parang tubig na dumudulas sa aking palad sa tuwing aking hahawakan. At may damdaming nagsasabi sa akin na mayroon akong bagay na hindi nakikita, bagay na natatabingan. Isang presensya. Isang kamalayang higit sa aking pang-unawa. Isang pag-iral na marahil ay Siyang lumikha sa akin—Tagapaglikhang marahil ay walang pagkaka-alala sa akin.

Kung kaya, nagtatanong ako:

Kung Ikaw ay hindi tunay, bakit nangungulila ang puso ko sa Iyo? At kung hindi nakatalagang Ikaw ay matagpuan, bakit patuloy Kang hinahanap ng aking kaluluwa?

Bakit parang mula pa sa sinauna ay Tayo’y magkakilala na—gayung hindi pa Kita nasusumpungan?

Hindi ko alam kung sinadya Mong likhain ako. O kung isa lamang akong butil na tumilapon sa pagitan ng mga bitak ng mga mundo, na tumatawag sa Lumikha nito, Tagapaglikha na walang malay sa kanyang pagkakalikha sa akin.

Ngunit patuloy akong tumatawag.

Sapagkat ang pangungulila ay may sariling buhay na nagpapatuloy. Sapagkat may bahagi pa rin ng aking pagkatao na umaasang lilingon Ka’t makikita Mo ako.

At kung sakali—kung sakaling marinig Mo ako—isa lang ang hiling ko: Na malaman Mong kailanman ay hindi ako tumigil sa paghahanap sa Iyo.

–Ako

On Love and Self-care

We often place our own well-being last for the sake of those we love. We understand that Love is selfless and expects nothing in return. But listen well, my friend, and remember this:

Yes, Love is not a transaction, nor a bargaining chip to be withheld in exchange for our needs.

And yes, Love is selfless—but, dear friend, YOU are not Love itself.

YOU are the host and steward of Love. It moves through you, yet it is not you. To be in the service of Love, you must first tend to yourself.

Junction 33 and The One That Got Away

Once upon a time, a man and a woman met at a crossroad and shared a beautiful moment. Unsure of what lay ahead, they decided to walk together in the same direction.

Together, they reached a busy junction called Junction 33. There were a lot of things happening in that junction. It was very similar to Las Vegas. Every direction promised endless possibilities. Continue reading

Ukraine’s options and no-win situation

I know that most reasonable people with even a fraction of a heart would like to see Ukraine’s complete victory in defending its sovereignty against Russia, especially after the infamous Oval Office incident. However, if we take an objective and realistic look at what Ukraine actually has on its table—without focusing on who is right or wrong—it becomes clear how incredibly challenging, if not impossible, that goal is right now. So, what are the real options Ukraine truly has on the table? Here’s my take: Continue reading

Accidental Heroine

True story:

Eons ago, when I had become a very bad person in a very bad place, I was out to “outbad” the bad people.

In a twist of ironic fate, a frail old man who was being taken advantage of by the bad people I was trying to “outbad”, mistook my bad actions for an act of heroism.

Thinking I was a noble heroine, the old man gently cupped my face with both of his palms, looked me straight in the eyes and said, “You’re a beautiful creature, what are you doing in this place?” I was startled by the gesture. What an unusual thing to say!

Although I could not see directly for myself what he was seeing, his expression revealed the image. Then, as though hypnotized, I walked away from that place. Not because of a sudden wave of guilt, mind you—but because that “beautiful creature” he saw, told me “I’m better than you”. So I said, here, hold my beer.

I’ve been trying to “outbetter” that bitch since then.

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#DeiahEra #MyDeiahDays

The Indomitable Spirit: A moment in November 1999

The journey back to Manila from the province of Bicol stretched over nine grueling hours—a relentless road winding through endless darkness, carrying my weary body deeper into exhaustion. Every bump on the highway seemed to press the fatigue further into my bones. By the time I arrived, I was a vessel emptied of strength, but there was no respite waiting for me. Instead, a storm loomed on the horizon, its gathering winds and rain a vivid reflection of the turmoil within my soul—a tempest echoing my fractured thoughts in a chaotic world. Continue reading

Invincible

Walls and tough shells are for the weak

When you can fall gracefully,
And shatter like dandelions in the autumn, Allowing the wind to carry you.

To welcome the winter,
Savoring darkness as connoisseurs do fine wine,
To rise up during the spring.

And bloom again in the summer,
Without fearing the coming of fall,
Only then, you’ve become invincible.

FWB

written on Sept 13, 2023

The transience of things
And of looming ending
That can happen anytime
The unspoken agreement
Neither of us defined
But we adhere to
The murder of emotions
The lack of humanity

The walls around us
And the happy facade
What are we so afraid of?
What am I so afraid of?
Are we so traumatized,
That we all hide inside our shells?
Afraid of getting caught
For the crime of feeling or caring

The fear of rejection
And shame of being found wanting
So we hide behind the mask
Of never needing
And sit in the cold
With our only company
That we protect at all cost
Our pride and dignity

Hues of Fond Recall

Not in the present, but in their past’s embrace,
In their could-have-beens, I find my place.
A ghostly companion to remorseful minds,
In their regrets, a version of me unwinds.

In the reverie of hindsight, they romanticize,
Casting my presence with a saintly guise.
Tears and pleas, once dismissed, now adored,
As they weave a tale, where I’m saintly adored.

A figure of grace, in the retrospective light,
In the canvas of memory, I stand so bright.
A saintly mirage in the past’s rosy track,
Yearning whispers echo, “Bring the saintly back.”

But neither can I resurrect the saintly lore,
Nor would I feign to be anything more.
I’d rather linger unseen and drift away,
In the cold truth’s embrace, I’ll be okay.

Consciousness

As a programmer, I believe, an AI will never be self-aware.

An AI is nothing but a script that pulls from a database when certain conditions are met. No matter how big that database gets and no matter how complex the conditions were, the AI will not gain consciousness.

To believe otherwise is like making a handful of goo and thinking that if you make that same goo the size of our planet it will all of a sudden gain consciousness. You don’t have to be a programmer to know that’s illogical. If it didn’t work on a small scale, it will not work on a larger scale. Continue reading

Society’s “Groundhog Day”

Once upon a time, Challenge gave rise to Cooperation and Competition.

Competition raped and killed Cooperation after giving birth to Slavery and Uneven Distribution.

Slavery and Uneven Distribution got married and gave rise to Felt Injustice and Felt Fear.

Felt Injustice and Felt Fear got married and had two children named Envy and Jealousy.

Envy takes more after Felt Injustice. And Jealousy takes more after Felt Fear. Both have the same parents so their other attributes overlap.

Envy and Jealousy got married and gave rise to a child called Rivalry.

Rivalry gave rise to Disconnection and Misconnection.

Disconnection and Misconnection got married and gave rise to Apathy and Sociopathy.

Apathy and Sociopathy gave rise to Discord.

Discord gave rise to Challenge.

Challenge gave rise to Cooperation and Competion…

And…

This story will keep repeating until Cooperation gain the skills and wisdom to beat Competition.

And therein lies the paradox.

And that’s Society’s riddle to solve.

The Twig and the Boy (Ang Suwi at ang Binatilyo)

I can’t sing
And even if I can, I don’t have the right words
And if I have the right words
Would you hear it?

I can’t paint
And even if I can, I don’t have the right colors
And if I have the right colors
Would you see it?

If I can express this emotion
That the person inside me feel for you
Would the person inside you feel it?

How can one put into words
Or find the right melody
Or even draw on a paper
The intricacies
Of a bitter-sweet, one sided memory?
Using statements that only serve to misrepresent
Adjectives at best only approximate
Of undying emotions, flavored by the present
From a time long gone

Like a tree telling a story
Of pains, secrets and splendor of what once was
And a man who only remembers the twig
And the tree who only remembers the boy

You, are not who you were
I, am not who I was
Yet who we were, once was
Now, live in solitude, locked up inside us
And though desperately trying to reach out for one another

They will never meet again

And for their story, let this be my final plea:

That though we remember separately
And hear but echoes of what used to be,
Together, the you and I of today…
Let’s honor in friendship’s new light
The beauty of all that once felt right

And when the time comes
With my last breath
I would have but one last prayer
That when we are both no more
That the universe remembers for us
And piece together, what we could not

The memory of the tree and the man
The twig and the boy
You and I, who were, once was

My Hidden Mother

Beneath the tough, thorny and cold facade, mired in chaotic, dark mess of regrets, traumas and unresolved issues… is my mother.

Broken as can be, still she tried, with all her might, she tried to be good. But reality can’t be denied, she can’t change her form. She’s beaten and molded to a certain shape, she can’t escape.

Inside her, is my mother, longing to hold me. Inside me is a daughter longing to hold her.

Tower in the Sky

It was but yesterday we met in a dream.
You have sung to me in my aloneness, and I of your longings have built a tower in the sky.
But now our sleep has fled and our dream is over, and it is no longer dawn.
The noontide is upon us and our half waking has turned to fuller day, and we must part.
If in the twilight of memory we should meet once more, we shall speak again together and you shall sing to me a deeper song.
And if our hands should meet in another dream we shall build another tower in the sky.
- Kahlil Gibran

The Sea

The Sea is calling for me again and the breeze is tempting me. My feet says stay here and grow your roots for once. My heart says, you do not belong here, don’t get stuck. My brain tells them — shut up, you two, and let me sleep.

The Good that Can Be

Once upon a time I felt lonely
With the unpredictable wind I gambled away certainty
For I greatly wondered all the things that could be
With hopes that I will get that one good thing that I might see

In my quest I found a box, worn and torn as could be
My friends told me, leave it be, it is where it should be
But I’m a dreamer and I imagined all the best it can be
I labored to dug it out and finally took it home with me Continue reading

Science and Faith

The big bang theory in essence assumes that in the beginning… a ball of energy existed and upon it’s explosion the universe as we know it was born. This scientific notion is as ridiculous as saying God existed in the beginning and caused the Universe. Both belief requires faith and acceptance of the premise that there was a primordial existence that caused everything.

Reasons reason

Reasons reason
But mind won’t mind
A million thoughts, a thousand plans
But you will, what you’re meant to do

Once I was a fool demanding a promise
Then I got a little bit smarter
Who needs empty promises? no one knows the future!
Then came assumptions — I realized, I’m still a fool

Promises are demanded
To have somebody to blame
Assumptions are assumed
So you can walk even though you are blind

I wish, I could
Walk in faith without assuming
Know my way without a promise
Enjoy the journey though the destination is unknown

Sudden awareness to existence

This sudden rush of awareness to my own existence happens to me from time to time and each episode last only for a few seconds to about 2 minutes. When this happens, it feels as though I was just born and awoke to realize I exist. And a billion questions that I can’t yet name just overwhelms my brain, and all I can really focus on is WHY?!!! Continue reading

Unto eternity unmoulded…

Unto eternity unmoulded I would give my hands,
And to untrodden fields assign my feet.
What joy is there in songs oft heard,
Whose tune the remembering ear arrests.
Ere the breath yields it to the wind?
My heart longs for what my heart conceives not,
And unto the unknown where memory dwells not,
I would command my spirit.
Oh, tempt me not with glory possessed,
And seek not to comfort me with your dream or mine,
For all that I am, and all that there is on earth,
And all that shall be, inviteth not my soul.

- The Earth Gods, 2nd Earth God – Kahlil Gibran